253. Introvert? Extrovert? Maybe You’re an Ambivert!

If you’ve ever felt like you don’t quite fit into the “introvert” or “extrovert” box, this episode is for you.

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In Chinese culture we celebrate Chinese New Year for 15 days, so I am still in the new lunar new year spirit so again Happy New Year! May the New Year continue to bring you joy, success, blessings and endless new possibilities! .

And as the new year approached I came to a really big revelation about my own life that’s been very eye opening to myself.

For the longest time, I thought of myself as a weirdo because I am super introverted, I speak on confidence, I live and breathe wanting to help others be more confident, yet I love being the quiet one in the room, I love being by myself.

So the strange part has always been that I’m at the same time extroverted. I love being around other human beings, I love to speak publicly and I don’t have a problem standing up for my thoughts.

Even taking personality tests, one year I’m introverted, the next year I’m extroverted. I always thought how weird am I?

For many years, I told myself I’m not weird, I’m unique, I’m limited edition, I’m special.

But it wasn’t until recently I discovered the word “ambivert” and I finally feel truly at ease knowing that I am an ambivert.

So today, we’re going to break down what it means to be an ambivert, how it can be a strength, and how we can use this personality trait to fuel our self-growth. Let’s get into it!

So what does ambivert mean? What is the meaning of ambivert?

According to the Cambridge Dictionary an ambivert is a person who has features of both an introvert and an extrovert in their personality. Ambiverts are sometimes also called outgoing introverts or social introverts or extroverted introverts. 

Because I so resonate to be an ambivert myself of course I went down the rabbit hole of learning all about ambiverts.

Most people don’t actually strongly identify as introverts or extroverts. Ambiverts naturally engage in a flexible pattern of both talking and listening.

In the right context, in the right mood, around the right people, ambiverts can be extroverted. But even though an ambivert typically enjoys other people, we also need time alone.

If you are like me, you’ve loved a party or an event one day but needed a full day of solitude afterward, you might be an ambivert!

There are alot of Pros of Being an Ambivert

1. Adaptability: One of the biggest strengths of ambiverts is their ability to adapt. Whether in a meeting, at a networking event, or working alone on a project, you can adjust your energy accordingly.
2. Great Listeners & Communicators: We are great listeners because ambiverts understand both introverted and extroverted tendencies, we can be excellent communicators, knowing when to speak up and when to listen.
3. Emotionally Intelligent: Since we can relate to both ends of the spectrum, ambiverts often have strong emotional intelligence, helping us connect with different personality types. Isn’t that amazing?

Now that we know the strengths of being an ambivert, how can we use them for personal growth?

Here are some ideas:

1. Honor Your Energy Cycles – This is really important! Pay attention to when you need social interaction and when you need rest. Schedule accordingly to prevent burnout.
2. Use Your Adaptability to Your Advantage – If you’re in a social setting and feel overwhelmed, lean into your introverted side. If you’re feeling stuck in isolation, push yourself to go out and socialize.

Now I totally think being an ambivert is a superpower. 

You get to experience the best of both worlds and use that flexibility to grow in ways that others might not be able to.

The key is to recognize your own patterns and embrace them fully.

So, are you an ambivert? Let me know! I’d love to hear your thoughts on this. 

Connect with me on Instagram @mslucyliu, and let’s keep the conversation going.

Thanks for tuning in, and as always, stay true to yourself. Until next time!